By: Omar Mostafa
We met them , we’ve dealt with them , and now we are going to expose them !!
Here are the 5 types of toxic people you will meet in your life :
The Narcissist :
A master of awesome first impressions and full of self-confidence , a narcissist is someone who strives on others attention and admiration .
Narcissists perception is self centered so they find anything they do or say of a really high value (even if it totally doesn’t) , they only achieve emotional fulfillment through attention and admiration from others , so to achieve this they usually give high attention to their looks and they try to be successful in their careers. However, Narcissists lack any kind of emotional empathy and they disregard other’s efforts and work , they only see others as tools to manipulate due to their selfishness , so no matter what you do or how much you care for them , they won’t appreciate it.
The Controller :
They will usually appear as caring , loving and easy going , but once you get close you will find them trying to control everything , it may start by asking where you go and when you hangout and may go as far as controlling who you talk to or the food you eat. They achieve self-fulfilment and emotional satisfaction by controlling their surroundings , and when you become a part of it they will try to control you like you are an item. This type of person will always treat you as their property rather than a human being , and the more you give in to their demands the more they will control you , so the best way to deal with them is to set boundaries on what you can and can’t do , they will probably hate you for it but your mental health matters more !!
The Energy Vampire :
They always look for others who have high energy and they will know how to get close to you if they want , but once they do it’s hell on earth. Those people feed on your energy , they always bring the worst case scenarios to the table just for the fun of it ,their negativity will drain you and drive you mad. Apart from their negative outlook on everything , they like to reflect this negativity on you, so they will most likely bully you , make you feel like a piece of shit and disregard anything you achieve. The best way to deal with those people is to leave them and let them be, no time for negativity in an energy draining world.
The Drama Magnet :
We have all seen them , they usually start to create trouble from highschool and they continue doing it till they die , those people feed on drama and create it , gossip is their middle name and they won’t stop till they ruin your relation with everyone around you.
This type of person enjoys gossiping and creating problems out of nothing , they are more like “Fake News” creating lies out of true events or simply spreading your secrets to everyone else. Even if they like you , they can’t stop talking and they will always put you in embarrassing situations , so the best thing to do to keep your mental health intact is to cut them off because you don’t wanna lose people around you and there’s no time for their drama and the endless problems they come up with.
Sometimes you may find yourself surrounded by a group of people who feed on gossip , it’s always better to leave them alone and find yourself healthy friendships , because nothing is worth your mental health.
The Green Eyed:
They are always dissatisfied and they have a perspective that they’re always the victim , the main problem with envious people isn’t that they want the things that they don’t have , but the problem is that they see others unworthy of what they possess, it’s always your fault that you have what they need. These people never look at the positive things life offers them and they only focus on the negative aspects , however they look to people around them differently always seeing them lucky depending on what they have. This type of perception creates a negative understanding of the world around them which affects their behavior , they may try to harm you to get the things you have or just to traumatize you because you have what they don’t. The best way to deal with those people is to not keep them too close nor give them details about your personal life.
Despite the fact that toxic people are terrible we have to know that they are victims of their own minds , it’s healthy for us to stay away from them without taking things personally.
The New Generation 