By: Malak el-Mansy

Anything that annoys you is for teaching you patience.

Anyone who abandons you is for teaching you how to stand on your own two feet.

Anything that angers you is for teaching you forgiveness and compassion.

Anything that has power over you is for teaching you how to take your power back.

Anything you hate is for learning you unconditional love.

Anything you fear is to teach you courage to overcome your fears.

Anything you can’t control is for teaching you how to let go and trust the universe.

So, life is a challenge and you have to win it. Many things that happen in our life aren’t that super nice and I know we may face many hard situations, lose our favorite people, love and get broken, work hard and don’t get a return, do our best and no one appreciates it, don’t find the one who understands you, be in a terrible mood and stuck for a while and more and more…

But trust me every single bad thing that happens in our lives is either for a reason or for something better that is coming, if you thought about it you will find that it’s right and if not let’s think about it.

For example, the most thing that hurts is when you feel alone. When no one is there for you and you’re not sure if when you fall will there be someone to hold you up or not… but wait a second, you may have this big friend circle but no one is there for you and in that moment I want to tell you that sometimes you need to be alone but you don’t realize that, loneliness makes us think and gain power to be strong because all people care about themselves and no one else, learn to be alone for needed times.

 

Another example, is ‘losing friends you really love’ it is a weakness point to many people cause they love these people more than themselves and care about them like they are responsible for their comfort and happiness, in that period of time when you lose someone you totally adore you think that your life sucks. But in fact when you encounter something like this you have to take it very positively! Yes positively …when you lose someone you gain experience, this person is now gone because of a reason we don’t know but god does know. Maybe because they aren’t the suitable person for your personality or maybe someone better is coming in your life or maybe that person could make a disaster in your life far away. There might be many other reasons but all of them are on our side!!

 

Life will let you down billions of times but most of the time it will be in your good. Giving up is not a solution but it is weakness, and weakness does not exist but unfortunately we build it by our negative black thoughts. We are not perfect and we won’t be and that is the whole story if we are perfect ‘hope’ would not be there and I am sure that we can not live without hope because it is the thing that makes us live and wait for tomorrow to come.

Always be smart and exploit your circumstances, because they are the most helpful thing to your own you/life.